Category: Sex

Lust Is Deliberate And Not Accidental …
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Lust Is Deliberate And Not Accidental …

Lust is historically accepted as the insatiable craving for sexual pleasures [hell of a beast!] one we best associate with serpentine imagery; a kind of sensual serpent with a knowing secret smile, eternally persistent. Lust is deliberate never accidental. If we accept this idea of Lust as represented as a serpent then it would follow...

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I Can’t Feel Your Thing

I will digress a little today and write about a thing or two that has happened since I started this blog about two weeks ago. I have received quite a number of emails from people who want to meet me both for personal, business and activism purposes. And other mail from people who wish to...

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Are You Wearing The Right Condom Size?

Lindiwe Rasekoala, top sexual wellness coach, explains that wearing a condom doesn’t mean you’re throwing excitement in the bedroom out the window. There are tons of styles, sizes, and stats that prove condoms allow you to get wrapped up in fun. There is a lot more to wearing a condom than only for protection –...

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My Vagina Is Tighter Than Your Vagina …

I am a feminist I am a feminist because I believe in gender equality My long and short of it, this is I am clear it is clear *** Removed from the cluttering chatters and detractive dialogue about bitterness, men-hating, lipstick, sluts, ice-queens, whores, ladies, petticoats, bitter, better I am clear It is clear I...

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Dirty Thoughts: What is Your Sexual Fantasy? Pt.1

We’ve been dating for about three months and I’ve been contemplating when to reveal some of my obscure sexual desires to him. So far he’s been able to take my insatiability. I’ve been wondering all evening if I should be brave tonight after our date night and bring to life the yummy sexual thoughts that...

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Nairobi Nights: The Indifferent Men, Tale of a Sex Worker.

When I started having sex I used to think the end was the only thing. And by end I mean sexual climax. Of course the end mattered but it didn’t take long to learn the process of attaining the climax was also important; for it is this that differentiates the sexual ability of girls. When...

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Why Men Don’t Talk About Rape …

These were the last few lines of the rape campaign ad that featured Charlize Theron some years ago. Today, rape is back in the news and many women are lamenting these same sentiments. Questions are being asked, where are men in all of this rape pandemonium? Why are they not saying anything? Why aren’t they...

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Friends with Benefits

Friendships are a natural and integral part of anyone’s life. The not so silent gatekeepers of our conduct, partners in crime, and in some cases your friends are your family away from home. Friendships are usually standard