1st Mar 2020
To Ask A Black Man How He’s Doing Has Become Taboo. You Good, Man?
As things stand today, to ask a black man how he’s doing has become taboo. To ask a black man how he’s doing is seen as an insult
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19th Feb 2020
The Truth About Men and Sex. Understand Men Better.
Over my career as a sex therapist, I have had the opportunity to sit with thousands of men as they've discussed their sexual feelings, sex lives, and fantasies. Obviously,
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29th Jan 2020
Grooming …
There is a saying on social media that goes “it’s not that you are ugly, you are just broke”, and I am actually starting to believe parts of it. After
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20th Jan 2020
The Beginning of a New Decade
When we started in 2015, we started with the vision of building a platform where men and women can have honest conversations that would enable a better society. We believed
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19th Jan 2020
Stepping Out of The Closet — The Big Deal
Generally, I avoid talking about when I came out of the closet to my parents. I avoid it because I’m not sure that I ever did. It's not so special
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8th Jan 2020
Understand Men Better: Sex As a Conflict Resolution Tool For Men
From a young age our parents didn't encourage us to be emotional, and therefore in general, we may mock or belittle emotions. To men, we are taught that all that
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9th Nov 2019
Dear Black Men …
Dear Black Men: We love you; we need you. We know that it’s not easy to be a man. It’s not easy to be a woman, either; to be educated, career
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18th Oct 2019
Protect The Boy Child (Part 1)
It’s important for a child to be raised by both parents, it’s also very important for both parents to play an active role in raising the child. The boy child
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12th Oct 2019
You Need Bad Guys for Good Guys to Win Because Good Guys Are Boring.
There’s always a conversation with regards to Ciara’s prayer on how she got Russell Wilson and a lot of women are asking for the prayer that she used to get
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24th Sep 2019
Lunch with Steve Biko, Grandad & Shaka Zulu (Part 2)
A few hours and some chow later, I, Steve Biko, my grandfather, and Shaka Zulu have reached that point in where the conversation has dried up and everyone at the
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