2nd Mar 2022

To Ask A Black Man

As things stand today, to ask a black man how he’s doing has become taboo. To ask a black man how he’s doing is seen as an insult to those

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1st Mar 2022

Sometimes Being in love with

We all have a “type”. Without any coherent reason, we find ourselves drawn to a specific look and specific traits in a potential romantic partner. When we do date our

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15th Feb 2022

Are South Africans A Romantic

To find out if indeed South Africans are a romantic bunch, Uber Eats pulled it’s 2021 Valentine’s Day data which revealed some interesting bites.  Leading up to Valentine's Day, a

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14th Feb 2022

You Can Love a Broke

There is an infestation of quotes directed and possibly written by women urging young ladies to support their struggling or hustling men. Quotes such as “Support his dream”, “A real

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3rd Nov 2021

When My Money Left, So

The title sounds like a dope Kwaito album from one of the greats, but that couldn’t be further from the premise of this write-up. See, what I am alluding to

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7th Oct 2021

Date A Woman With A

WHERE ARE YOU? AND, WHERE IS SHE? If you are between the age of 25 and 35 you are at the height of your dating life. This is the point

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15th Jun 2021

I Am A Single Girl.

Or woman. Whatever one wants to call it. Bottom line is that I am single. In fact, I’m so single, I can’t remember the last time I got a young

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14th Jun 2021

To Let Go Is To

Letting go is one of the most difficult tasks we will ever face in our lifetime. Letting go of a relationship, friendship, the past, etc, there’s no question that breakups

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16th Mar 2021

Miss P: The Myth of

Our columnist Miss P looks at misconceptions mature women face when they date younger men. Where did it all start? Remember the movie, How Stella Got Her Groove Back? It

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