4th Apr 2020
Tears Of a Broken Man. I was married, had been with my wife for 15
I was married, had been with my wife for 15 years. Then I left her 2 months short of our 10 year wedding anniversary. We were parents to two beautiful
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30th Mar 2020
My Womb Is Not A Farm!
Clearly, there is something that I must be missing here, what is this obsession with my womb, or the contents thereof? Over the past twelve months, I have received no less
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11th Mar 2020
The Struggles of This Dating Thing. Who Pays The Bill On A Date?
A gentle brother recently asked for the pleasure of my company, I indicated that I’d let him know when I had the capacity and that was that. It came as
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11th Mar 2020
Love Is A Journey: 11 Days of Love and Tar (Part 5)
Its NEW YEARS EVE. 2016! We wake up bright and early, enjoy a quick and dirty two star hotel breakfast before we head from Bulawayo to Victoria Falls Town. A quant
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5th Mar 2020
Love Is A Journey: 11 Days of Love and Tar (Part 4)
It’s the 30th of December 2016. All along our plan was to ride from Jozi through the Groblersdaal Border into Botswana, passing through both Palapye and then quickly onto Francistown where
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1st Mar 2020
To Ask A Black Man How He’s Doing Has Become Taboo. You Good, Man?
As things stand today, to ask a black man how he’s doing has become taboo. To ask a black man how he’s doing is seen as an insult
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23rd Feb 2020
Love Is A Journey: 11 Days of Love and Tar (Part 3)
It's 5am and we are gunning it full speed from Polokwane to the Groblersdal border gate. The journey is about 206km. This means about two and half hours of thinking
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17th Feb 2020
Love Is A Journey: 11 Days of Love and Tar (Part 2)
This is one of those moments in a relationship when we both know that this question requires no response. So we switch off comms and keep riding. After about 4
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10th Feb 2020
Love Is A Journey: 11 Days of Love and Tar (Part 1)
It’s the 28th of December and we are having dinner at a Jozi spot. We’ve just spent the entire day packing everything from our two bedroomed apartments in Fourways onto
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27th Jan 2020
You Are Probably Not What You Think You Are To Your Lover, You Might Be
Everyone is looking for something that is selfishly for their own indulgence in every relationship. There is always a transaction transpiring in your relationship, it is best you sit down
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