6th Jul 2021

The Benefits to Children of

What is the boy crisis? It's a crisis of education. For the first time in American history, our sons will have less education than their dads. It's a crisis of

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20th Jun 2021

I am. Not. A Father.

Its Father’s Day this coming Sunday, a day I love and hate in equal proportion. I love it because I come from a home of amazing fathers, grandfathers, and uncles,

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26th Jan 2021

10 Things I Learned In

1. Parenting a baby is all about poop. What colour is it? When last did they poop? Did they struggle while pooping? Do we have enough nappies for the next

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13th Jan 2021

The Wound Of A Father

A true father goes through many unspeakable experiences to continue to be a father. When he goes out daily in search of bread for his household, he sustains many mental

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23rd Nov 2020

How Did We Become A

I attended a funeral over the weekend and as per usual, all the speakers had great things to say about the deceased. Two things stuck out for me. The eldest

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29th Sep 2020

As Men, When We Abandon

I am very conscious about my blackness, and have instilled a strong sense of black pride in my kids. They know who they are and they love their skin, their

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25th Sep 2020

My Abusive Mother, Let’s Have

Growing up, one would always hear about deadbeat fathers/uncles/brothers and all the abuse they came with – emotionally, psychologically and physically too. It’s a song that’s still sung today that

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1st Sep 2020

I’m Not Happy With My

I hope the title isn't uncomfortable for anybody. But I am comforted by this notion that parenting doesn't come with a manual, so I guess I will write my own

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