There’s a difficult conversation that needs to be had in relation to parenting and it’s about resilience. The actual word that I want to use it hardship but we’ll get to that. For those who don’t have kids, here’s how online parenting advice works. The people who are most vocal about giving parenting advice are...
Category: Fathers/Child Experience
Father, Daughter, Love
I grew up in a society where black fathers were shunned because of their lack of support and availability. It is said that a father figure is rare where black women are concerned and that in turn, deprives them of the teachings from a male on how life works especially where men are concerned. Not...
What Happens to the Relationship after the Baby is Born?
First of all let’s admit it, making a baby is absolutely amazing. Now that I have that out of the way, I took a lot of time to write this article, maybe it’s because I’m scared it might expose me to be a hypocritical person. However, I felt I had to have a conversation with
The Liquor Bottle’s Suffocating Throttle.
Why not? I loathe that I reluctantly have to come up with a response to this question everytime I’ve declined an offered alcoholic beverage at a social gathering because a simple NO doesn’t always suffice to many. For a lot of folks in our community, a drink or two is the most common pastime and...
Mother Is God In The Eyes Of A Child (Part 2)
My parents raised me to be ok with being different, awkward, or being an artist.
Mother Is God In The Eyes Of A Child (Part 1)
I remember when my father passed on, it was 2001 and I was in grade 11 and I had just been appointed prefect
Perception of Black Fathers Changing For The Better
The perception of black fathers is changing and we are here for it, this year’s Father’s Day was much more peaceful on social media compared to the other years when it was changing to a “happy father’s day to my mother”. I don’t think the idea is about muting single mothers who have to play...
10 Things I Learned In My 160 Days as Mihla’s Father
1. Parenting a baby is all about poop. What colour is it? When last did they poop? Did they struggle while pooping? Do we have enough nappies for the next 10 poops? Let me take a picture of this poop to show the doctor. Now your gallery is full of poop. 2. There will be...
How Did We Become A Fatherless Society?
I attended a funeral over the weekend and as per usual, all the speakers had great things to say about the deceased.
As Men, When We Abandon Our Children, We Make Our Enemies Happy.
I am very conscious about my blackness, and have instilled a strong sense of black pride in my kids. They know who they are and they love their skin, their hair and everything about them that makes them black. We need that in this world that works really hard to beat us down because of...