I bet almost every girl has been through the same shit, maybe even more than once! You are trapped in a house, slightly intoxicated and you have no means of transportation. Let alone that you cannot even tell East from North where you are. You look around and count the people in your company. There...
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You’ve got to see it, until you see it …
Inspired by #WeAreComingForEverything. The most important hashtags of our generation. Have you seen how children would put their feet, wear and try to have their feet fitting their parent’s shoes? 99.9% of the time, it’s never the same sizes as theirs. It’s always bigger sizes than theirs. At that point they envision themselves having/wearing the...
Language and Black Identity …
Much of what we consider to be our identity can be found in the language that we use. We can learn so much about who we are from how our language is constructed. It is actually quite interesting how language shapes our perception and experiences of the world. There’s a term for it, it’s called...
Paying Etiquette: Who Picks Up The Bill?
Ahhhh… the age old question of “who should pay on the first date?” It’s a minefield for the modern dating man. Try and do the gentlemanly thing, and you could end up looking a sexist dinosaur; split the bill, and the only thing you could end up kissing goodbye is the chance of a second...
Survey Reveals The Most Popular Sex Position …
There’s nothing like a sex survey for finding out things we’d love to know the answer to but would be punched if we asked. The brave people from Dr. Ed interviewed 2,000 people from the UK, the US and Europe about their favoUrite sex positions to see if sex really is the universal language. The result...
The Boy Child …
As the kids were marched off to their first day of school on Wednesday, 11 January 2017, perhaps the most significant experiences, were those starting for the first time, and those going into high school for the first time. As children embark on their journey to school, I believe that parents should also embark on...
Welcome to E-Mndeni ‘A.K.A’ Beirut
Wo khulum’ uwabale amagamakho singabase Mndeni so sang a group of boys a few years ago, as they walked past my house from a soccer match, presumably victorious. I remember thinking I wonder how many of them will play for our national team; make their families proud, become ambassadors of our possibility and rising above...
Van Damme is not my friend …
By the time you read this you will realise something that you should have realised 3 weeks ago :Kuyalaleka mawungena mali. After using your last few notes to fill up the tank. You will be missing the Xmas food you never ate. In agony you will want to pounce your head against the wall,...
About Market Values, Social Vacuums and The Land Question…
This week, learners across the country will return to school for the 2017 academic year. Included in this group of millions of students within our education system, will be 555 of the most privileged human beings in the entire continent – the boys of Hilton College. The College is – by all measures known –...
Conversation with Marvin …
Marvin reckons New Years resolutions should start in December. He figures it’s a bad idea to jump on the January bandwagon because by the end of March, the wheels fall off. It is generally the same pattern every year because people are inspired but it doesn’t last, there is no momentum. People put so much...




