21st Oct 2021

The Strong Black Woman Burden

It has been calling me; it has been calling out to me In many different ways it has been calling me It called and called out when Feminsta Jones wrote:

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13th Sep 2021

The Graduate; A boy from

Everyone has a story to tell, I was born in a small village in Limpopo (Ga-molepo), but my parents resided in Gauteng. So I have spent my life moving in

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3rd May 2021

My Vagina Is Tighter Than

I am a feminist I am a feminist because I believe in gender equality My long and short of it, this is I am clear it is clear *** Removed

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19th Jan 2021

An Open Letter To My

Dear Nephew, I call you that because you are truly cherished (in a way that I doubt I could explain to you sufficiently in words). I am not particularly fond

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14th Aug 2020

Man up! Breakdown of Masculine

To have a healthy, fulfilling relationship, one partner (usually the man) must carry masculine energy, while the other (usually the woman) carries feminine energy. In the relationship, these energies react

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12th Jun 2020

Why Men Don’t Talk About

These were the last few lines of the rape campaign ad that featured Charlize Theron some years ago. Today, rape is back in the news and many women are lamenting

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18th May 2020

Men Who Kill and Women

I am around 10yrs old and I am at a family function. There are relatives everywhere in the yard and me and my younger cousins are sitting on a bench

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11th May 2020

The Truth About Being Single

Every once in a while one or other of my friends will write or say something ostensibly sensible but actually quite stupid. It's quite unfortunate, when you realise the silliness

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2nd Apr 2020

Here’s To The Crazy Ones.

“ Here’s to the crazy ones. The misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers. The round pegs in square holes. The ones who see things differently. They are not fond of rules,

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14th Mar 2020

An Open Letter To My

Dear Nephew, I call you that because you are truly cherished (in a way that I doubt I could explain to you sufficiently in words). I am not particularly fond

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