1. You are number one in any relationship. And NO! You not being selfish, it is the ultimate form of love. Taking of yourself, making decisions that best suit you enables you to trust yourself, and if you fail you’ll learn without blaming and hurting anyone. 2. You are not late for anything and not...
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To Ask A Black Man How He’s Doing Has Become Taboo. You Good, Man?
As things stand today, to ask a black man how he’s doing has become taboo. To ask a black man how he’s doing is seen as an insult to those who suffer at the hands of a black man. It is to suggest that the world doesn’t have bigger problems and all must be cast aside to attend to the fragile
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First Born Sons Are Not Substitute Husband For Negligent, Abusive or Absent Fathers.
There’s a certain type of mother wound that hits first born sons, hard, and their pain is not acknowledged. If anything we have coined the derogative term “mama’s boy” and use it as a blanket to silence and mock their suffering. See, many women unfortunately find themselves raising children without the aid of a supportive...
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Are South Africans A Romantic Bunch?
To find out if indeed South Africans are a romantic bunch, Uber Eats pulled it’s 2021 Valentine’s Day data which revealed some interesting bites. Leading up to Valentine’s Day, a total of 212 bouquets of flowers were ordered, and of these roses rose up to the occasion making up 420 meters in height if stacked...
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You Can Love a Broke (“Struggling”) Man, But He Can’t Love You.
There are millions of broke men, even those with jobs and cars. It’s in those millions of broke men that women have to choose boyfriends, partners and potential husbands from. Let’s sum them up into three types; There are those who are hopeless nje
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I Can’t Feel Your Thing
I will digress a little today and write about a thing or two that has happened since I started this blog about two weeks ago. I have received quite a number of emails from people who want to meet me both for personal, business and activism purposes. And other mail from people who wish to...
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The Beginning of We Are Coming For Everything
2014 feels like another world compared to now, yet we are still dealing with the same challenges if not worse. We Are Coming For Everything as a hashtag to highlight businesses and black professionals who were taking on industries that have been for a long time closed off to us. The following year the hashtag...
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What to Expect this February 2022 on Netflix
The month of love is around the corner and trust Netflix to shower you with some binge-worthy content that you will definitely fall in love with. We kick things off with some of South Africa’s favourite comedians as they take center stage to showcase their talent in a collection of short stand-up sets in Only...
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Legends Barbershop Joins Uber Eats Platform
Innovation to drive awareness to more than 150k Uber Eats customers. Uber Eats is thrilled to announce its latest partnership with the local success story Legends Barbershop. Earlier this year the barbershop celebrated its 10th year anniversary by opening its 50th store. The brand new moves to greater heights by joining the Uber Eats app...
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Alpecin C1 Caffeine Shampoo
If you mad for a Machhiato or a fan of the Flat White, don’t just wake up and smell the caffeine; incorporate it into your grooming routine too. Almost 85% of men suffer from hereditary hair loss and thinning by the time they reach 50*. Alpecin C1 Caffeine Shampoo, for daily use, stimulates hair during...