Wearing absolutely nothing but silver glass heels, the mocha coloured beauty gets up from her bright unimaginative sofa to answer the door. Her endowed behind shaking at every purposeful but short step. “Who is it” she asks. “Its me, Travis!” a response is shouted back nonchalantly. “I’ve been waiting for you nigger” she whispers to...
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Wine and Pie
I I knew the kind of woman I wanted to love me when I used to see my grandmother get ready for church. She was a Catholic you see. Black skirt, polished shoes, purple sleeves and acres of hope in her eyes. She used to put on her head wrap as if she was going...
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What Men Understand About Foreplay …
According to psychosexual therapist Dr Ruth Westheimer, it is particurlarly important for women to have successful foreplay because it takes a woman a longer time [than a man] to get up to the level of arousal needed to orgasm. Dr Westheimer says a man can just think about sex and have an erection. In a quest to...
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The Dichotomy of Being …
I am what you could call a classic over achiever with control issues. Meaning that I generally have to succeed at everything that I attempt to do, and further more I like to have things done my way. So what happens to a 32 year old over achiever, with control issues who feels that they...
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Decoding Women: 5 Things For Less Stress And More Good Sex
I have finally settled on 5 things to focus on for my session at the Loving Women, Understanding Men: Better breakfast seminar, this Saturday the 27th. You see, one of the things I have learned about men is that they are generally overwhelmed by women’s capacity to talk, seemingly about a million things at one go, so...
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Gratitude
When Matthew McConaughey won an Oscar in 2014, he said something that stayed with me since then … he said “He has shown me that … it’s a scientific fact that gratitude reciprocates” — Matthew McConaughey That was part of Matthew McConaughey’s speech when he received his Oscar this week. While growing up, our parents try their best to teach us about appreciation, because someone...
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Do it.
Do it. Just do it (hello, Nike!). Just bloody do it. Do it now, don’t do it tomorrow, do it now, right now, do not wait for everything to fall in place, just do it now. Do not wait for the perfect moment, just do it now, do it! do it! do it! Do it...
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Count to one hundred and let go
Let go of the you from long ago. Let go of this Let go of that Let go of what might Let go of what could’ve Let go of if only Let go of the fear Let go of control Let go of your chained heart Let go of the nerves Let go of...
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2016 Young Women Queens of Advertising
Never before have the young females of advertising been appreciated in this manner. We felt it was both imperative and important that they get appreciated and exposed to both the industry and world at large. Amacreatives came up with the idea to gather some of the ladies in a short time at one venue to...
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Decoding Women: The Answer To “Do I Look Fat In This?”
BABE, DO I LOOK FAT IN THIS? No need to resort to ending your life, this conversation can have a happy ending. Let me let you in on some insider info. You may think that this is the clever response but she won’t buy it, she is female NOT stupid. Usually when a lover asks you...