19th Jan 2021

An Open Letter To My

Dear Nephew, I call you that because you are truly cherished (in a way that I doubt I could explain to you sufficiently in words). I am not particularly fond

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14th Aug 2020

Man up! Breakdown of Masculine

To have a healthy, fulfilling relationship, one partner (usually the man) must carry masculine energy, while the other (usually the woman) carries feminine energy. In the relationship, these energies react

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12th Jun 2020

Why Men Don’t Talk About

These were the last few lines of the rape campaign ad that featured Charlize Theron some years ago. Today, rape is back in the news and many women are lamenting

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18th May 2020

Men Who Kill and Women

I am around 10yrs old and I am at a family function. There are relatives everywhere in the yard and me and my younger cousins are sitting on a bench

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11th May 2020

The Truth About Being Single

Every once in a while one or other of my friends will write or say something ostensibly sensible but actually quite stupid. It's quite unfortunate, when you realise the silliness

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14th Apr 2020

Why Women Love To Hate

Why women love to hate men (and why men don't care) Sigh. I’m going to get into a lot of trouble for this. I know some women already have their

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14th Mar 2020

An Open Letter To My

Dear Nephew, I call you that because you are truly cherished (in a way that I doubt I could explain to you sufficiently in words). I am not particularly fond

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19th Jan 2020

My Boyfriend Has A Girlfriend

They are happy He makes her sandwiches She gets to smell his crisp scent, of nourishing nothingness He gives her neck-kisses in the morning, tells her she is loved, he

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9th Nov 2019

Dear Black Men …

Dear Black Men: We love you; we need you. We know that it’s not easy to be a man. It’s not easy to be a woman, either; to be educated,

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28th Oct 2019

Love Is Not Enough …

In 1967, John Lennon wrote a song called, “All You Need is Love.” He also beat both of his wives, abandoned one of his children, verbally abused his gay Jewish

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