12th Jun 2020

Why Men Don’t Talk About

These were the last few lines of the rape campaign ad that featured Charlize Theron some years ago. Today, rape is back in the news and many women are lamenting

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26th May 2020

You Are The World That

When you're a child, you're in the guidance of your parents and they make all your decisions for you - except pooping on yourself. The older you get, your parents

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18th May 2020

Men Who Kill and Women

I am around 10yrs old and I am at a family function. There are relatives everywhere in the yard and me and my younger cousins are sitting on a bench

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14th Apr 2020

Why Women Love To Hate

Why women love to hate men (and why men don't care) Sigh. I’m going to get into a lot of trouble for this. I know some women already have their

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19th Jan 2020

My Boyfriend Has A Girlfriend

They are happy He makes her sandwiches She gets to smell his crisp scent, of nourishing nothingness He gives her neck-kisses in the morning, tells her she is loved, he

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9th Nov 2019

Dear Black Men …

Dear Black Men: We love you; we need you. We know that it’s not easy to be a man. It’s not easy to be a woman, either; to be educated,

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28th Oct 2019

Love Is Not Enough …

In 1967, John Lennon wrote a song called, “All You Need is Love.” He also beat both of his wives, abandoned one of his children, verbally abused his gay Jewish

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7th Aug 2019

Dating A Single Father, Myths

It is 2015. There is a faint but very real shift in the parenting paradigm, especially within the black community. More and more men are taking up the role of

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27th May 2019

Understand Men Better: Do Men

It's hard to be a man and when I say this I don’t mean to compare it to being a woman because I know nothing about being a woman, therefore

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