Dear Nephew, I call you that because you are truly cherished (in a way that I doubt I could explain to you sufficiently in words). I am not particularly fond of you because your father abandoned your fetal-self, nor because we share the same DNA here I could wax lyrical of how I helped raised...
Category: Understand Men Better
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Joe Human. Being in Lockdown Really Exposed How, as Humans, We Thrive in Connecting.
I’m a sole believer in people constantly reaching different levels of consciousness. This year might have further affirmed this belief. We got to be lonely but not alone. We came to face our thoughts, fears, visions and demons. A lot of us used social media as a coping mechanism. Being in lockdown really exposed how,...
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Episode 09: How We Lost The Black Man
How did we as black men get to such a state of brokeness? How did we end up being such a terrifying threat to the lives of black women? Is it possible to retrace our history from a spiritual point of view to figure out what actually went wrong? In this episode Gogo Aubrey Matshiqi...
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Man up! Breakdown of Masculine & Feminine
So telling a male to man up is at most useless. The only way you can get him to man up is to stop mothering him/being the man. If he WANTS to be a MAN he will step up to the Masculine role
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Here’s the fallacy of “Not All Men”, as explained to an 8yr old
To say that black women have suffered more at the hands of black men than any other isn't to cast all black men as bad.
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What Do Men Crave For In A Woman?
The reality is most people spend a good majority of their lives looking for an Ideal Lover. To most people this is a person who will focus intensely on them, understand their most intimate needs and give them all that they are missing. With men it’s no different, and in my opinion men are less...
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You Are The World That You Have Created …
When you’re a child, you’re in the guidance of your parents and they make all your decisions for you – except pooping on yourself. The older you get, your parents try to instill some sort of responsibility into your life by giving you the power to make decisions and dealing with the consequences thereafter. Then,...
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Men Who Kill and Women Who Stay …
I am around 10yrs old and I am at a family function. There are relatives everywhere in the yard and me and my younger cousins are sitting on a bench damn near licking our plates clean. My older cousin, ous Pankie, walks past, we like her a lot. She laughs at us with our mouths shiny...
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Understand Men Better: Ramblings of a Gambler With A Bad Hand (Part 2)
Hopefully, at this point, it’s apparent that these four elements are interlinked and will most likely not exist in mutual exclusivity. That ought to give a glimpse of the required level of continuous self-awareness that a man needs to not only define
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Understand Men Better: Ramblings of a Gambler With A Bad Hand (Part 1)
Crossroads Blues Legend has it, that deep in the Mississippi Delta round about 1930, a young black man by the name of Robert Leroy Johnson born 8 May 1911, stood at a local crossroad near Dockery Plantation at midnight and sold his soul to