For me, self-discovery is about purpose, it’s about understanding your soul and all the energies it possesses. However, the journey is tedious. It includes fear, doubt, misunderstanding, and makes you re-visit old choices.
Category: Understand Men Better
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Learn To Heal
We get told shit like “time heals all” which is valid depending on what you do with the time, but healing is about the process, the process is being able to instruct yourself and execute that instruction.
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You Can’t Defend Black Men …
When I wrote that piece a few years, I was quite overwhelmed by the response. It seemed that people were genuinely touched by the sentiment of what I was trying to convey
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Understand Men Better: Do Men Have Issues? Are They Even Real?
It's hard to be a man and when I say this I don’t mean to compare it to being a woman
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Be Vulnerable
Isn’t that scary? Especially because we are a generation of control freaks, we control what people think of us, we control our image on social media and perceptions
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Coffee Rituals: Bean There Coffee
I’ve Bean down and out before. I’ve gone through things that make me wonder how I overcame them. We all know that life gets hard sometimes.
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Coffee Rituals: Dear Maria
Thank you for having me at the shop the other day. I’m slowly getting to know the team a little better and this is making my experience more special with each visit.
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Understand Men Better: Men Don’t Listen To Women
To be heard is something that I hold very dear to me, when I am not heard I feel all sorts of things that might seem small to the next person but way bigger to me. I have come to the conclusion that both men and women don’t listen to each other, yet each one...
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When I First Encountered Sexual Intercourse
I remember the first time that I encountered sexual intercourse, I was around nine years old. Ou lady sent me next door to get something, I don’t quite remember what. The guy I was sent to had umkhukhu at the back, I went with a friend of mine and we knocked on the door. He...
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Getting Older Scares Most of Us
The notion of running out of time and supposedly having less energy for the things that used to come easy to us. Age comes with pressure. Where are you in your life, what have you achieved, are you married and do you have kids? Throughout my 20s, I ‘lived’. I had fun, only did work...