It is often said that there’s no love like the First Real Love. The rollercoaster ride that comes with your first love peaks at a lofty height and even draws you towards dangerous waters. Although it’s all picket fences and roses at first, there comes a time when the thin line between love and hate...
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Why Tough Love Is Necessary
Lately, I find myself reflecting on my personal journey as umjita, and more often than it is required; I relish at the indelible fact that, some things are painful but necessary…like tough love. Depending on who and how it is exerted, tough love can be your ally in turbulent times. Luckily for me, I have...
I am Here To Dream Again, I am Here to Start Again …
The Covid pandemic and its effects were a lot on most of us and many of us have never been through a pandemic before. We also lost a lot of people during that period which is still heavy on us to this day. My first child was born during the peak of the pandemic, which...
Sometimes Being in love with “Your Type” is What is Keeping You in Repeated Toxic Cycles
We all have a “type”. Without any coherent reason, we find ourselves drawn to a specific look and specific traits in a potential romantic partner. When we do date our type, the vibe is unmatched; leaving us convinced that maybe soul mates do exist. Which is often confusing if we keep being attracted to a...
Healing For Your Children, And Children’s Children
Today is my Dad’s birthday. I took this picture a few weeks ago. I was walking past and noticed Thing 2 and her dad watching TV. First I gave myself an internal High 5, and then I took the picture. You see, I have never had such a moment with my dad. I was terrified...
What to Expect this October 2020 on Netflix
Spooky season is upon us and Netflix has got you covered with these deliciously scary watches. The Conjuring, Final Destination and A Nightmare on Elm Street are among our top picks for a late night horror movie binge, and will be available to watch from the 1st of October. Not big on ghouls and ghosts?...
Lust Is Deliberate And Not Accidental …
Lust is historically accepted as the insatiable craving for sexual pleasures [hell of a beast!] one we best associate with serpentine imagery; a kind of sensual serpent with a knowing secret smile, eternally persistent. Lust is deliberate never accidental. If we accept this idea of Lust as represented as a serpent then it would follow...
How to Handle a Lifestyle Downgrade
Petrol is now at R22 a liter and it’s said it will reach R40 soon. A lot of South Africans do not have much to downgrade from their lifestyle but there are many more, like you, who can make a few adjustments to handle the rising prices of EVERYTHING. We all go through times in...
Castle Lite, the Global partner of Rugby World Cup Sevens
More than 120 000 rugby and entertainment enthusiasts, one of them being the Legendary Brian Habana, filled up the mother city, at Cape Town Stadium in three days to attend the biggest entertainment and sporting experience in the world. The Rugby World Cup Sevens 2022. The 3-day experience was star studded with appearances from Mandisa...
What to Expect this August 2020 on Netflix
This August comes loaded with content and we can’t wait for you to watch it! Arnold Vosloo stars in Netflix’s first Afrikaans series Ludik . This explosive 6 part series follows the life of a successful furniture salesman with a secret that is connected to the underworld. “Daan” risks being exposed, losing his family and...