I enjoy the good energy and vibes each new year brings, the motivational “this is my year sayings” gearing everyone up to tackle the year and hopefully win. I recently came back from a holiday in Mozambique, besides the days being over 37 degrees hot I got to experience the culture, food, markets, walks on...
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Men Who Cheat Are Mainly In It For the Emotional Validation
When it comes to the discussion of men who cheat, it is often reasoned that, well, men are unfaithful because they want sex. Hard stop. But more and more social research confirms that men cheat for reasons relating to emotional validation. They seek affair partners who will make them feel like their feelings are worthwhile, that their stories...
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What to Expect This February 2021 on Netflix
The month of love is here and let’s face it, most of us will be spending it indoors cuddling up with our loved one. So, to keep you all loved up, Netflix has prepared its line-up for the February love fest which kicks off with the highly anticipated To All The Boys: Always And Forever....
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Men Mature Too Fast.
Men mature too fast. You tell a man a problem, he skips the emotional turbulence and quickly flips to solution mode in the calmest manner to the point where he comes across as lacking emotion. That time you wanna vent and indulge in the pity, caress the negativity of the situation. You hear dudes say...
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Once Upon a time in South Africa, Strange Men Invade Our Home
I want to tell you a story. I want to use YOU to tell this story. Imagine, one night, you and your family were peacefully sleeping in your home. It was a modest, humble abode, but it was your home. You grew up in that home, so did your father and his father before him…...
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Auntie – My Friend (Part 1)
I met Auntie some years ago. Actually, it was more like she forced her introductions onto me. She is a homeless lady. The scenic streets of Cape Town are laced with more homeless people than anywhere i’ve ever seen. Clearly photoshop comes in handy for the brochures. Anyway, that’s not the point of the story....
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An Open Letter To My Nephew … And Other Young Men Who Come Into My Care
Dear Nephew, I call you that because you are truly cherished (in a way that I doubt I could explain to you sufficiently in words). I am not particularly fond of you because your father abandoned your fetal-self, nor because we share the same DNA here I could wax lyrical of how I helped raised...
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The First Series From Shonda Rhimes’ Shondaland, Bridgerton
Netflix released the first look at Bridgerton, the first series from Shonda Rhimes’s Shondaland. The series is created by longtime Shonda Rhimes collaborator, Chris Van Dusen (Scandal, Grey’s Anatomy, Private Practice) and was released on the 25th of December globally on Netflix. Bridgerton follows Daphne Bridgerton (Phoebe Dynevor), the eldest daughter of the powerful Bridgerton...
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What to Expect this January 2021 on Netflix
Happy New Year and farewell to 2020. 2021 is here and while we wait for the COVID vaccine to rollout, Netflix has us covered. You can look forward to the 5 badass fairies from Fate: The Winx Saga kicking evil ass, while Bean comes back to step up her princess game in Disenchantment: Part 3. The...
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What to Expect this December on Netflix 2020
What to Expect this December on Netflix It’s December! That means two things -1. The festive season is here (screams very loudly!) and 2. Your holiday binge list of what’s coming to Netflix is ready for you. We are so excited to share with you that Netflix will be launching two new local originals this month,...