We need to talk. We need to talk about why we live in a society that lives in fear of the actions of misguided men. We need to look at what we have been teaching our boys that brought us here
Tag: conversation
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Dating A Single Father, Myths and Misconceptions about Single Fathers …
I put the term ‘single father’ inside quotation marks because the concept of single parenting is not as clean-cut as we often think.
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Understand Men Better: Do Men Have Issues? Are They Even Real?
It's hard to be a man and when I say this I don’t mean to compare it to being a woman
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I Miss That Kinda Love
I read a letter that a friend sent me the other day that spoke to so many truths and anxieties that I identify with when it comes to matters of the heart.
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… a poverty-stricken mind
Apartheid accomplished the rooting of inta-racial-hatred into generational consciousness. We seem to suckle it to our young and it courses through their veins.
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All I know …
We all have certain beliefs and one of the most annoying thing - is us expecting the next person to have the same beliefs — I know right!
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Ohh Money Money Money (Mozambique, Maputo)
When I first heard that song a few years back, I was still suffering from a mental block
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Orphaned — Perpetually bereaved
Somehow, you know it when you are engaging in pillow talk with someone who you have no business having pillow talk with: it is characteristically awkward… there is no intimacy and rather than being relaxed, minds are racing with a million different ideas of getting out. But pillow talk is polite, and manners never killed...
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Baby Daddy Part 5 (Finale)
“…sometimes to go as you expected with a pregnancy and then you have to seriously consider termination”, these are the gynecologists words after a routine scan when my girlfriend was about 6 months pregnant. What? Huh? Please note that this dude just said this out of the blue. “Terminate? Why would we do that?” I...
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Baby Daddy (Part 4)
It is the fourth of February 2008. A month and a half has passed since my girlfriend and I told our families that are going to be parents. She is about 3 months pregnant. It’s 2:30am on a Monday morning and my phone rings, it’s my brother. “It’s bad news”, he says. With those three...