Category: Relationships

We were parents to two beautiful children, who are in their late teens now, but were only seven and nine years old when I walked out. I travelled

Clearly, there is something that I must be missing here, what is this obsession with my womb, or the contents thereof? Over the past twelve months, I have received no less than five offers from men, some of whom I was romantically linked to at some point, or ones who I have met recently, who have asked me to bare them an offspring. My assertion on this matter

A gentle brother recently asked for the pleasure of my company, I indicated that I’d let him know when I had the capacity and that was that. It came as quite a surprise when one afternoon he rang me and insisted on seeing me that same evening at a place of my liking, so I

Its NEW YEARS EVE. 2016! We wake up bright and early, enjoy a quick and dirty two star hotel breakfast before we head from Bulawayo to Victoria Falls Town. A quant little town on the border between Zimbabwe and Zambia. It’s home to one side of the Majestic “Mosi Wa Tunya”, as its called by locals, meaning The Smoke That Thunders.

It’s the 30th of December 2016. All along our plan was to ride from Jozi through the Groblersdaal Border into Botswana, passing through both Palapye and then quickly onto Francistown where we would eat lunch, then head onto the border between Zimbabwe and Botswana. This would lead us into Bulawayo, the capital

It’s 5am and we are gunning it full speed from Polokwane to the Groblersdal border gate. The journey is about 206km. This means about two and half hours of thinking time. Its fascinating how much time the open road gives one to reflect and question their own actions. The first thought on both our mind

This is one of those moments in a relationship when we both know that this question requires no response. So we switch off comms and keep riding. After about 4 hours of rain, yes it took us 6 hours JUST to get to Polokwane from Jozi in those conditions. As a side note when riding...

It’s the 28th of December and we are having dinner at a Jozi spot. We’ve just spent the entire day packing everything from our two bedroomed apartments in Fourways onto the back of a van and into a storage container. We are tired, elated and anxious all at once because what lies ahead of us...

Everyone is looking for something that is selfishly for their own indulgence in every relationship. There is always a transaction transpiring in your relationship, it is best you sit down at some point and figure out what is it