Ashley Graham rocked New York Fashion Week (It is beginning to seem possible) She didn’t just walk, she didn’t just strut She rocked; she slayed! (It is beginning to look possible) Ashley Graham is a plus- size model. Yes, yes, I know, I hate the term just as much as...
Category: Conversations
The Reality of Dreams …
It was a bit of a rush job. I actively decided not to think about it for 3 whole days. I ignored the possibility of possibility. The reality of dreams, because, well because things like that didn’t happen to me. But that morning I couldn’t contain my excitement. “What must I say?” “Just be yourself,...
Standing On The Bridge (Part 1) …
A week ago, a random comment on a seemingly random Facebook status lead to a conversation via inbox between myself and a Facebook friend. We’ve never met before and our interaction was based on our common interests has creatives. It was a lengthy conversation that started out as ordinary laments about daily strife. But, at...
You Are Probably Not What You Think You Are To Your Lover, You Might Be This … (Part 2)
It is often said that a good relationship is one where people want the same things, having more in common than opposite. Yet, there are fiery relationships that have managed to go one for years and decades with people involved seemingly totally opposites of a coin, but a coin nonetheless. We then say opposites attract...
It Takes Two To Tango …
It takes two to tango But: why Sis? It is unfair to slut-shame the other woman. It is wrong to single out the other woman, to put all the cheating blame on her But: why Sis? It is in fact the man who is the cheat; it is he who has been unfaithful; it is he who...
Virtual Insanity (A Jamiroquai Reprise) …
I’m a relatively young woman- relative to my mother’s generation – and I’ve always found it difficult to date. I think that the problem might be me. My problem is that I dive – headfirst – into a ‘thing’ with a love interest. I’m an artist, so also a little sensitive (read crazy). I talk,...
It Was A Mistake …
STORY I You’ve been chilling and kicking it with your friend at his spot. Telling stories and talking bs like normal adult men do. A little sip of something iced, a little sniff of something white, now there’s ‘a dragon pumping in your veins’. Maybe it was a dare, maybe a bet about who has...
A Little Dead; A Little Scared; A Little Brave …
Sipho and I were in an accident, the other night. I made it, somehow, but Sipho wasn’t so lucky. Sipho is no more.And people have questions. My friends, my acquaintances, the people who stopped to help, the police, the paramedics, the doctor, the nurse, myself…people have questions. They have well-meaning but annoying; well-meaning but tedious; well-meaning...
Rape (Part 2)
I didn’t see the rape video of the 17yr old mentally ill girl. But I have witnessed a rape. Yup, I actually watched it with my family. We huddled around a laptop in a dimly lit bedroom on a winter night. It was shocking but, well, not entirely life changing or enraging. Why not? Well,...
Rape (Part 1)
There was a video of a 17 year old, mentally handicapped girl allegedly being raped by 7 men that went viral in South Africa. The country was up in arms at this appalling incident. There was anger and frustration from every sector about everything from woman and child abuse, lack of leadership, a lost youth to...