Category: Relationships

She gets me maaaan! Where do I even start? She really understands me. She makes me come alive. She’s the first to actually make me believe in myself after a long time of depression, stress, hurt and frustration that I’ve been through. She’s that one lady that you look at and you can’t help but...

I bet almost every girl has been through the same shit, maybe even more than once! You are trapped in a house, slightly intoxicated and you have no means of transportation. Let alone that you cannot even tell East from North where you are. You look around and count the people in your company. There...

I have finally settled on 5 things to focus on for my session at the Loving Women, Understanding Men: Better breakfast seminar, this Saturday the 27th. You see, one of the things I have learned about men is that they are generally overwhelmed by women’s capacity to talk, seemingly about a million things at one go, so...

When Matthew McConaughey won an Oscar in 2014, he said something that stayed with me since then … he said “He has shown me that … it’s a scientific fact that gratitude reciprocates” — Matthew McConaughey That was part of Matthew McConaughey’s speech when he received his Oscar this week. While growing up, our parents try their best to teach us about appreciation, because someone...

BABE, DO I LOOK FAT IN THIS? No need to resort to ending your life, this conversation can have a happy ending. Let me let you in on some insider info. You may think that this is the clever response but she won’t buy it, she is female NOT stupid. Usually when a lover asks you...

For woman’s month, this is what I am doing for women (and the men who love them). Generally, men don’t get women. It’s okay because women don’t get men either. Mainly because we really, really, really want to believe that men are complicated. But I digress. Most of you guys aren’t very motivated to understand women...

Cheating is at its most fashionable. Its become a societal norm, the accepted disability of our communities if you will. But why do people cheat? The answer to that may point to historical and societal factors that are not often spoken about or acknowledged in the public sphere. Free Love In the mid 1960’s a...

“Eish gents, I can’t come watch the match today. I didn’t get my Visa” “Tjovitjo bafethu! I have my Visa, where’s the party at?” Aah yes, the almighty powerful Visa. A symbol of momentary freedom and the promise of adventure to the many a men bound by the shackles of a committed relationship. Ok, ok,...