Over my career as a sex therapist, I have had the opportunity to sit with thousands of men as they’ve discussed their sexual feelings, sex lives, and fantasies. Obviously, I don’t know what it feels like to be a man, but I have had the honour of listening to the male perspective on sexual
Certain situations are easier to judge when you are on the outside looking in. I’ve always been judgmental to men who leave their kids behind and never create a bond with them. I’ve always perceived life from a place of privilege because I had both parents until the end and obviously had no understanding of...
During my single state of affairs, I had the opportunity to ask this one lady I was conversing with: “What kind of man do you want?” This question was one of those questions I totally was not interested in the answer for, but they are a prerequisite to the start of a relationship, affair, hook...
How the new kid on the block proved that heritage is no longer enough As a young Black man with a deep interest in the automotive world, from how cars are built to why they are built the way they are, I found myself learning about the car industry at a very young age. My...
For the past few years, masculinity has been put on trial. Everywhere you look—social media, mainstream conversations, even boardrooms—the word “masculinity” is often paired with “toxic.” It’s become easy to blame men for aggression, emotional distance, or societal issues. But in doing so, we’ve missed something far more important: Masculinity itself isn’t the problem.A lack...
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In a world that often celebrates independence and self-sufficiency, many men have quietly learned to believe that they must face life alone. From a young age, boys are often taught to be tough, to suppress their emotions, and to handle problems without asking for help. While resilience and strength are valuable traits, this mindset has...
Money is one of the most powerful forces shaping a man’s life. It influences where he lives, the opportunities available to him, and the stability he can provide for his family. Yet despite its importance, many men are never taught how to properly manage money. For generations, men have carried the expectation of being providers...
In today’s world, masculinity is often misunderstood, debated, and sometimes even criticized. Many men are left wondering what it actually means to be a man in modern society. Is it about strength? Success? Money? Power? Or something deeper? The truth is that masculinity, at its core, is not about dominance or status. It is about purpose....
In today’s world, two of the most valuable commodities a man has are time and money. Everything else — status, lifestyle, opportunities, and even freedom — is built on how well a man manages and protects these two resources. Yet many men move through life giving both away too easily, often without realizing the long-term consequences....