Men Love Harder …

In my 34 years on this planet I have come to believe this:

Men love harder than women, yes women tolerate more than men do, but a man’s love for a woman is one of the purest things you will ever witness. It’s not a “just because I am lonely” type of love or “just because she loves me type of love”, no – it’s untainted, pure and genuine. Us women can learn to love and men can’t; it’s either they love you or they don’t. Men don’t know how to love in half measures … once you get to understand this, you will wish for a man to eventually love you this way someday. If you are with a man that does not quite love you right you will know, it’s either he is not with the one he loves or has yet to meet the one he loves. If you have to force it, beg for it, convince it, trick it or try to figure it out … then it’s not that kind of love my dear … let that man go. Nothing hurts more that knowing that, the man you are throwing yourself at – his heart belongs to someone else.

Writer: Dearsis Dudu

  • Nina
    28th Sep 2018

    I read somewhere men decide whether they down for it or not and us women,a person can grow on us.

    You learn this lesson once and vow never ever to be that desperate for someone’s affection and leave the table even if you kicking and screaming because love is no longer there.

    Also,I think there is a direct relationship with lack of self-love and begging for love from someone who doesn’t care at all.

  • The Looz
    2nd Oct 2018

    Yeyi! This!

    Also,I think there is a direct relationship with lack of self-love and begging for love from someone who doesn’t care at all.

    Whilst I agree with you, self love requires one to be very self aware and that is a steep learning curve for many humans

  • Dineo
    16th Mar 2019

    I have learnt to truly love myself first and putting me first and it became easy for me to never beg for any love as I have stayed for far too long begging to be loved. It begins with the inner person.

    And once yoh are self aware, you can easily pick up fake love and would never choose to stay. I like this as this reminds me of a journey I have undergone and one that I’m still on… Putting myself first

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